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Divorce Mediators, LLC

 

 

 

(704) 896-5882

Mediation Services for the Greater Charlotte, NC area

Convenient mediator offices at SouthPark and Lake Norman

 

 
   
 
 

 

When considering how time will be spent with the children, it is paramount to consider their needs prior to considering the "wants" of the parent.  The parenting plan must be comprehensive to be effective, addressing how and where the children will transition to other spouse's home, potential parental relocations, and proximity to preferred schools.  Consideration as to the children's ages, educational requirements, extracurricular activities, and parent work and travel schedules should be used as a basic foundation in developing a schedule.

 

When authoring a schedule, it is often a good idea to consider changes that the children will undergo.  For example, a schedule that works well for infants and toddlers may not work at all for a pre-teen or teenager.  However, nothing can better address changing circumstances better than cooperative parents who choose to work together in co-parenting their children.

 

 

Dual Residency Models (Joint Physical Custody)

These models are ideal for those parents who wish to have their children live with each parent for extended periods of time or to divide their time equally between two homes.  Effective coordination, flexibility of the parental work schedule, and the willingness to encounter the other parent contribute to the success of these arrangements.  When school is not in session, transitions may be after the workday ends. 

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Model JP-1

 

 Time split exactly 50/50 at all times

 

14 overnights every

28 days

 

Time with each parent

3-6 days

 

Each parent has every other weekend

 

All transitions done before/after school

 

Some weeks have 3 transitions

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Model JP-2

 

 Time split 50/50

during 1 year period

 

Time spilt 60/40,

swap after 6 months

 

Time with A – 4 nights

 

Time with B – 3 nights

 

Wednesday transition done at school

 

Saturday transition at 6:00 pm

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Model JP-3

 

Time split exactly 50/50 at all times

 

Monday transitions done at school

 

Each has 7 nights consecutively

 

All weeks have 1 transition

 

 

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Primary Residency Models

These models are ideal for those parents who wish to designate one home as the primary home in which the children live.  Usually parent B will have an extended summer time period for 2-6 weeks, depending on model and personal schedule.  When school is not in session, transitions may be after the workday ends.

 

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Model PR-1

 

 Fri/Mon transitions done at school

 

B has ALL weekends

 

Time approximately 60/40

 

B has 12 nights per

28 days

 

 

 

 

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Model PR-2 

 

Fri/Mon transitions done at school

 

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B has every other weekend

 

 B has 6 nights per 28 days

 

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Model PR-3

 

Fri/Sun transitions done at school/6 pm

 

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B has every other weekend

 

B has 4 nights per 28 days

 

 

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