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Children's Issues |
A hundred years
from now, it won't matter what bank accounts I had, what
sort of house I lived in, or the kind of car I drove, but
that this world is better because I was important in the
life of a child.
--- Forest Witcraft
Children.
Our future. Their strength, their adaptability, their
ability to cope with the pending issue of divorce will
depend largely on the parents. Old-school thinking
once held that it was the divorce itself that caused
children to acquire depression, have difficulties in school,
and get in trouble with the law. Research has now
shown that conflict, and not divorce, is the most crucial
factor in influencing a child's post divorce adjustment.
And we are there to help you make decisions that will keep
any future conflict to a minimum.
Mediation offers
all of those involved -- mom, dad, and the children --
opportunities for success that cannot be provided in a more
efficient manner. If you were to be asked the
question, "Who knows what is best for your children?", your
reply would most likely be, "Well, I do!" So why let a
judge whom you have known eight hours determine the fate of
your children? After all, you know what is best.
Mediation lets you and your spouse make the decisions that
are best for your children.
Carolina Divorce
Mediators, LLC was founded on children's rights and needs.
Your mediator will task you to stay focused on your children
while helping you carefully consider the impact of any decisions that
you might be considering.
The bottom line
is that neither of you should be worried about what is going
on at your ex-spouse's home while the children are there.
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